Comments on: 3 Traits That Make You Resilient to Failure https://allpsych.com/3-traits-that-make-you-resilient-to-failure/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=3-traits-that-make-you-resilient-to-failure The Virtual Psychology Classroom Wed, 04 Jan 2017 20:27:01 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.5 By: Neil Petersen https://allpsych.com/3-traits-that-make-you-resilient-to-failure/#comment-2497 Wed, 04 Jan 2017 20:27:01 +0000 https://allpsych.com/?p=767#comment-2497 In reply to Grace Allison.

Hi Grace, thanks for reading and commenting!

Regarding your first point, I think one way to look at this study is that yes, we all know having a “positive outlook” must be a good thing, but what specific aspects of having a positive outlook are most significant in terms of making people resilient to failure? The study looked at a whole bunch of different traits, and many traits related to having a “positive outlook” ended up being only weakly associated with resilience to failure or having no effect at all. The idea is that if we get specific about the exact traits that correlate with resilience to failure, we can be more efficient about designing interventions that build resilience rather than telling people to just have a “positive outlook.”

As far as the “attributional style” trait, I guess it depends on what you mean by “taking responsibility” for failures. We can all probably agree that when things go wrong, it’s good to reflect on what you could’ve done differently to avoid repeating any mistakes. On the other hand, it’s not really helpful to internalize your failures and take them as as permanent reflections on who you are as a person.

Of course, no one’s claiming there’s a perfect correlation between being a good person and being resilient to failure — it’s an interesting question of whether people who blame everything on others actually end up being more resilient. And it would probably take another study to answer. 😛

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By: Neil Petersen https://allpsych.com/3-traits-that-make-you-resilient-to-failure/#comment-2496 Wed, 04 Jan 2017 20:05:53 +0000 https://allpsych.com/?p=767#comment-2496 In reply to Dr Annie Hickox.

Thanks!

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By: Grace Allison https://allpsych.com/3-traits-that-make-you-resilient-to-failure/#comment-2495 Wed, 04 Jan 2017 19:17:55 +0000 https://allpsych.com/?p=767#comment-2495 I have a little problem with these traits. Especially number 2. I also can’t believe that it took a team of professionals figure this out. The short condensed version is people with a positive outlook on life and a positive feeling about themselves handle their failures. You know the difference between the glass is half-full or half-empty.
But what you said in number 2.
So basically what you’re saying is these people with positive attitudes take no responsibility for their contribution for their failures. They at some point are responsible in some way simply by the choices they made. But they have the ability to blow that off, take no responsibility for the part they played, pat themselves on the back and move on.
I think that is part of the problem with this world. No one takes responsibility for the shit they are in. It’s always someone else’s fault.

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By: Dr Annie Hickox https://allpsych.com/3-traits-that-make-you-resilient-to-failure/#comment-2494 Wed, 04 Jan 2017 15:58:36 +0000 https://allpsych.com/?p=767#comment-2494 Great post. Very useful and concise. I will be sharing it on Twitter and LinkedIn.

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